For as long as we have had kids and have been home owners, I have dreamed of having the home with the illusive Bonus Room. See, I want our home to be the home that my kids friends want to come to and picture this idyllic world where the children quietly slip away to the Bonus Room and leave with smiles.
Is it possible to raise kids in a little 3 bedroom home and have their friends desire to come over to a little house even during those late elementary and older years? It works find now, but our kids are young and we do have this nice feature – our kitchen, office/music studio, and front living room are situated in this perfect way to create an indoor track. So, no matter where adults might be in the home, the happy children will be careening through the area as they circle around the track.
Maybe this is what all the parenting experts define as: Togetherness.
So what’s in these bonus rooms? During my run today I asked myself this very question. I pictured behind each of the doors that lead to these Bonus rooms lies a mini-DisneyLand, full of endless gadgets, gizmos, and Ferris Wheels to keep children giggling and occupied for hours.
And I, don’t have one of these places and covet all that do. There. Truth is out.
So I ask, do you think it is going to be possible to raise our sprouts without one of these Bonus rooms!!????
I want one. But Rennaissance Man says, “Julie, we are outdoor people!! Do you really want to have to work harder and longer to afford the big home and give up months of vacations together as a family? We’ll just take our kids’ friends with us on our adventures. What would we do with all that space? We wouldn’t ever be in it?”
10 minutues later, after I have zoned out for about 9 minutes, I hear him pause so I meekly ask: “well, would this bigger home have a bonus room?”
Summer couldn’t come quick enough as I posted earlier, my desires for STUFF, Bonus Rooms, Stuff for the Bonus rooms, and stuff for future Bonus Rooms is starting to consume me!! I feel as if I am collapsing before the finish line. (So I went out, and for the first time in years, I bought myself 3 summer dresses! No friends or mom to help…I did this all by myself! But, sadly it did not take away this incessant desire for a BONUS ROOM!!!)